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Letter to myself and those who Neurospicy resonate.

You don’t have to be anyone other than yourself. It’s okay to have boundaries and to protect them. Do your best to look after you, you were born without the handbook, it’s okay to mess up and learn from mistakes, at least you know that you really do your best with what you have to work with, if those people can’t see that, those people are not Your people.

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Safe Introduction of Kink. In the Beginning.

When starting out the best place is at the beginning. Lower level kinks such as Sensation Play and Deprivation, Wax Play and less intense Bondage are good places to start. For the purpose of this article I’m going to focus on Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation.

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Starting Poly Dating. Is it for you? In the very beginning.

How do you know you’re Poly? How can you find out? How do you start out without causing issues for others? Where do you even start! You may be asking yourself one or all these questions and be quite nervous about how to move forward. Don’t you worry your pretty little heads my dears! The community is here to give you all the knowledge you need to make informed decisions and find what’s right for you.

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Consent, Communication and Boundaries in a Social Setting.

Everyone is different in the level in which they are comfortable in a social setting, therefore it is imperative to respect what everyone requires to enjoy their nights as much as possible.

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GETTING STARTED: LINGO & PRONOUNS

To keep up with the crazy conversations, to learn new things, to find new things to look into and to know what to ask about when you want more information, the best place to start is to Know Your Lingo!

Finding Professional Allies in the Housing System

Over two years, the author navigated housing challenges and complex aid services and governmental systems while living with disabilities. With the help of advocates, they faced obstacles but eventually secured stable housing and quality of life. The importance of Advocate support is emphasized, highlighting systemic flaws in aid services.

Kink and/vs Fetish

Fetish, is something physically neccessary for sexual gratification, whereas a Kink, relates more to the act/behaviour/concept implied.

A Climactic Debarcle

Studies continue to prove that the orgasm gap only exists as a cultural issue time and time again so there really isn't an excuse anymore. The fact is that most people barely know what they are even working with and what feels good for their partner due to societal suppression of commication and education Sex. This is not a hetero only thing. Regardless of your sexual partner's anatomy and gender, they are going to have things they like specifically that can differ from others who identify similarly. Sex should NOT be about reaching the orgasm/climax but rather should focus on what each individual enjoys the feel or experience of.

Drowning in Queer (trigger warnings see tags).

What happens if noone throws you a lifebuoy? Be someone's lifebuoy today. It's not difficult, I'm not asking alot, simply give space to your queer friends to express who it is they truly are.

My Pseudo Kids

If you have activities set up and willing to teach crafts it's quite easy to look after ADHD kids for a day, easier than people make it seem anyway. Put a show on that's got short episodes, after an episode you do a craft till they lose focus, if at all because sometimes they become hyperfocused on learning that new thing till it's perfect. Next head outside, find a park or a pool nearby. Rope another neighbourhood kid into play dates.