If you read alot of gay literature of any kind you may notice a common theme. Whether it’s poetry, manga, novels, short stories, you may notice a feeling that’s described often. It’s Drowning. Drowning in the expectations of society, the hate, the self-loathing, the desire that’s built up through abstinence, the watchful eyes of strangers,Continue reading “Drowning in Queer (trigger warnings see tags).”
Tag Archives: Communication
You’re Not Hard To Love.
Stay away from those who say you are hard to love.
When a D/S dynamic dissolves.
It’s okay to be devastated when a dynamic dissolves.
Consent & Communication via Online messaging services
Sometimes people need a couple tips when it comes to what is and isn’t appropriate to bring up in conversating and/or what is appropriate message content to share. This entirely depends on the person you are communicating with. What people deem appropriate or not is entirely subjective. What I want to make clear today isContinue reading “Consent & Communication via Online messaging services”
Getting Started: Consent, Communication and Boundaries in a Social Setting.
Everyone is different in the level in which they are comfortable in a social setting, therefore it is imperative to respect what everyone requires to enjoy their nights as much as possible. Asking for consent before any physical touch is very important. Some people do not enjoy physical touch of any form, even as aContinue reading “Getting Started: Consent, Communication and Boundaries in a Social Setting.”
GETTING STARTED: LINGO & PRONOUNS
So, you’re interested? GREAT! Let’s get started! First Up, I’ve got a Page to help you on your journey, To keep up with the crazy conversations, to learn new things, to find new things to look into and to know what to ask about when you want more information, the best place to start isContinue reading “GETTING STARTED: LINGO & PRONOUNS”