Finding Professional Allies in the Housing System

Over two years, the author navigated housing challenges and complex aid services and governmental systems while living with disabilities. With the help of advocates, they faced obstacles but eventually secured stable housing and quality of life. The importance of Advocate support is emphasized, highlighting systemic flaws in aid services.

Letter to myself and those who Neurospicy resonate.

You don’t have to be anyone other than yourself. It’s okay to have boundaries and to protect them. Do your best to look after you, you were born without the handbook, it’s okay to mess up and learn from mistakes, at least you know that you really do your best with what you have to work with, if those people can’t see that, those people are not Your people.

My Pseudo Kids

If you have activities set up and willing to teach crafts it’s quite easy to look after ADHD kids for a day, easier than people make it seem anyway. Put a show on that’s got short episodes, after an episode you do a craft till they lose focus, if at all because sometimes they become hyperfocused on learning that new thing till it’s perfect. Next head outside, find a park or a pool nearby. Rope another neighbourhood kid into play dates.

Long-Term Illness & Kink

Some people like me have Long-term conditions that can totally take over their lives. Historically, I’m an intensely sexual person whom can withstand and enjoy even the most extreme forms of kink revolving around pain. There’s a part of me that craves pain, on a regular basis. A part of me that gets completely submerged in pleasure and pain creating the rare occupancy of a blissfully blank mind. There’s a part of me that wants to go all night long collapsing in a puddle of bodily fluids.

Starting Poly Dating. Is it for you? In the very beginning.

How do you know you’re Poly? How can you find out? How do you start out without causing issues for others? Where do you even start! You may be asking yourself one or all these questions and be quite nervous about how to move forward. Don’t you worry your pretty little heads my dears! The community is here to give you all the knowledge you need to make informed decisions and find what’s right for you.