Category Archives: Getting started

Kink and/vs Fetish

Fetish, is something physically neccessary for sexual gratification, whereas a Kink, relates more to the act/behaviour/concept implied.

A Climactic Debarcle

Studies continue to prove that the orgasm gap only exists as a cultural issue time and time again so there really isn’t an excuse anymore. The fact is that most people barely know what they are even working with and what feels good for their partner due to societal suppression of commication and education Sex. This is not a hetero only thing. Regardless of your sexual partner’s anatomy and gender, they are going to have things they like specifically that can differ from others who identify similarly. Sex should NOT be about reaching the orgasm/climax but rather should focus on what each individual enjoys the feel or experience of.

Long-Term Illness & Kink

Some people like me have Long-term conditions that can totally take over their lives. Historically, I’m an intensely sexual person whom can withstand and enjoy even the most extreme forms of kink revolving around pain. There’s a part of me that craves pain, on a regular basis. A part of me that gets completely submerged in pleasure and pain creating the rare occupancy of a blissfully blank mind. There’s a part of me that wants to go all night long collapsing in a puddle of bodily fluids.

Safe Introduction of Kink. In the Beginning.

When starting out the best place is at the beginning. Lower level kinks such as Sensation Play and Deprivation, Wax Play and less intense Bondage are good places to start. For the purpose of this article I’m going to focus on Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation.