ANAL & PEGGING

BEGINNERS GUIDE

What you will need:

• Lube
• Small toys with splayed base
• Small dildos
• Toys increasing in size with experience
• Strap on
• Toy Cleaner/hot water/disinfectant
• Diaper/MaxiPad (recommended for those with continence difficulties)

Never had anything in your butt? Wanna go for it but have no idea where to begin?

Start alone, grab your lube and lets go! Start at home and explore the sensations you like by using your fingers. Once you’re comfortable with your fingers you can then invest in different sizes of butt plus, anal beads are fun to. For butt plugs you can buy sets that include smaller butt plugs increasing in size often referred to as “trainer” sets. Orgasm sensations are different for Anal versus other sexual stimulation. For some people anal is preferred intercourse not just for the pleasure factor but a logical pregnancy prevention whilst still getting on the bang bus. As a reminder always use protection unless with Long term relationship/s with Consensual arrangement.

HACK: When using toys its always a good idea to set up a bowl of cleaner beforehand so you can put them in there once you’re done, its just easier.

INSERTION • When inserting slather on the lube, breath slowly and deeply inserting incrementally. Ensure any toys used have a splayed base (We don’t need any embarrassing trips to the hospital to retrieve items.) once you’ve inserted the item, stop, give your body time to relax and adjust.

The next step is to bring a partner into the fold. Again starting small and easy. Prostate massages are a fantastic thing you and your partner can do (if you have one obviously). Explore the sensations and positions that feel the best for you/your partner. Play around with motions and find what works for you. “Take time to play with it, warm it up, anal foreplay can be more fun than the act if you get your partners right spots!” (Wolf). When both giver and receiver are more comfortable you can move onto dildos starting on the smaller end of the spectrum. Always remember, BULK LUBE. Before inserting (giver using hands) the giver needs to sort their grip out but I’ve got a great tip to help you find your motion before anything else.

HACK: Slowly slide the underside of dildo over top of the anus a few times which will also coat the dildo in lube. You can adjust grip to what feels more comfortable and get comfortable with motion you’ll use that way, also it still feels good for the receiver.

When inserting follow previous instruction, those instructions are the same for all anal penetration. For the non silicone penis wielders out there Coyote explains perfectly how to penetrate. “Ensure cock is fully hard for ease of entry and maximum efficacy. Soft cock will be difficult to keep in. Holding base of shaft and squeezing will maintain pressure and good control for ease of entry.” Another little hack that works for some people to maintain erections is the use of cock rings.

With regards to pegging for a beginner giver whom isn’t used to doing the fucking…..it‘s harder than it looks. Squats should become your friend, they will seriously help you build up those pumping muscles. Practice makes perfect. Before inserting as mentioned above slide over hole for a few pumps, this allows you to adjust your positioning, height and get used to movement.

ALWAYS STOP WHEN ASKED WITH ANY ANAL PLAY, IF IT HURTS STOP, INJURY CAN OCCUR EASILY AS SOON AS RECEIVER IS UNCOMFORTABLE or stressed as muscles clench up so always start small and or slow. Increase sizing incrementally, practice before play and use butt plug to relax prior to play. Wear it on the way in the train haha I have actually done this but its not an overly comfortable experience but if you enjoy the thought then go for it but only after you are completely comfortable with that particular plug.

Now then, the next port of call is ACCIDENTS HAPPEN though not as often as you think, most peoples bodies are pretty good with controlling this. But hey, shit happens, don’t go down the dirt track if you’re afraid of a little mud. Don’t feel embarrassed if something happens, its all natural and nothing to feel ashamed of, besides it was there first haha. Douching is an option however I don’t really condone it as it disrupts your natural flora and isn’t healthy for you. However I will tell you that douching needs to be done 30 mins to and hour before play to be the least bit effective. Don’t trust in douching, sometimes you’re just adding water to the equation. It’s better to do anal a little after going to the toilet and cleaning with a wet wipe. There can be residual however its better to deal with the after thought instead of a full load haha. Wayyyyyyy more reliable.

DON’T EVER MAKE A PERSON EMBARRASSED OR ASHAMED ABOUT AN ACCIDENT. Continence related accidents can be severely emotionally damaging if handled poorly. Be kind, accept what’s happened and be helpful. Help clean up, you’re part of the reason it happened, there ain’t no high road in this situation.

Okay lets talk AFTERCARE, YEP, AFTERCARE FOR ANAL. Aftercare shouldn’t just be done for kink and BDSM and the more extremes. Every sexual encounter should have some kind of aftercare because baring all for others can be a real challenge for some. It’s important for everyone involved to feel safe. Always act in a way that concentrates on preventing any physical or emotional injury.

When you’re all spent and in your puddles of victory its time to let the body relax. When you’re ready and steady enough to move, place toys in a bowl of cleaner and you can bring them to shower with you or leave them there to deal with a bit later. Carry on to the shower with your partner- BEWARE JELLY LEGS. Hopefully you’ve used so much lube that wet wipes wont help you and you need a proper shower. If an accident has occurred this is also a great way to help the receiver to feel more safe, comfortable and secure again. Once you’ve made out in the shower and are all squeaky you can put a maxi-pad or diaper on if you feel a little stretched out or nervous. This is totally optional. You can just put one on for piece of mind. Those who experience incontinence I’d recommend wearing something as anal can cause some irritation. Then settle in for a snuggle.

An extra Quote I just have to include because its true and also a bit of a giggle and a high note to end on is this:

“Well I can say there are 3 main stimuli in anal. The most nerves are at the entrance of the hole so you don’t need to go deep to maximise pleasure (though if you’re a size queen like me it’s amazing) haha” Athena xx

Who knows maybe you are a size queen waiting for their chance. Just remember to relax and take it slow and easy and increase in increments. Don’t go crazy straight of the bat or you’ll injure yourself. Side HACK: Always pee after sex where possible. Banging can make things go places they don’t belong so we want to flush the lines so to speak.

Get out there and explore your body. Love Fox ❤