Author Archives: foxhacks

Finding Professional Allies in the Housing System

Over two years, the author navigated housing challenges and complex aid services and governmental systems while living with disabilities. With the help of advocates, they faced obstacles but eventually secured stable housing and quality of life. The importance of Advocate support is emphasized, highlighting systemic flaws in aid services.

Letter to myself and those who Neurospicy resonate.

You don’t have to be anyone other than yourself. It’s okay to have boundaries and to protect them. Do your best to look after you, you were born without the handbook, it’s okay to mess up and learn from mistakes, at least you know that you really do your best with what you have to work with, if those people can’t see that, those people are not Your people.

Kink and/vs Fetish

Fetish, is something physically neccessary for sexual gratification, whereas a Kink, relates more to the act/behaviour/concept implied.

A Climactic Debarcle

Studies continue to prove that the orgasm gap only exists as a cultural issue time and time again so there really isn’t an excuse anymore. The fact is that most people barely know what they are even working with and what feels good for their partner due to societal suppression of commication and education Sex. This is not a hetero only thing. Regardless of your sexual partner’s anatomy and gender, they are going to have things they like specifically that can differ from others who identify similarly. Sex should NOT be about reaching the orgasm/climax but rather should focus on what each individual enjoys the feel or experience of.

Drowning in Queer (trigger warnings see tags).

What happens if noone throws you a lifebuoy? Be someone’s lifebuoy today. It’s not difficult, I’m not asking alot, simply give space to your queer friends to express who it is they truly are.

My Pseudo Kids

If you have activities set up and willing to teach crafts it’s quite easy to look after ADHD kids for a day, easier than people make it seem anyway. Put a show on that’s got short episodes, after an episode you do a craft till they lose focus, if at all because sometimes they become hyperfocused on learning that new thing till it’s perfect. Next head outside, find a park or a pool nearby. Rope another neighbourhood kid into play dates.