ABOUT ME
HI all you Slaves to Love! All kinds of Love! It is I, Your local Melbournian Lover of all forms and expressions of Love and Sensuality.
My Name is Nik, Niko, Fox, King of Dirt, Plants, Arts, Crafts, DIY and the debauched.
Labels that I identify with or give a good overview of myself, and my experience are:
TransMan, Gay/Homoflexible, Kink-Sex-Body positive, ASD/ADHD, Chronic health issues, Stage 4 Endometriosis, PCOS, Fibromyalgia, IBS, Anxiety and Depression.
These are often topics if not regularly mentioned in throughout my writing.
I identify as a Fox in a primal way. I also identify as a middle/little particularly in a Kink atmosphere. For me this isn’t a solely sexual thing, it also refers to my nature being both FIERCE and PLAYFUL. I can merge into a pack or run solo. I can flitter between packs and people. I’m ever present in the lives of those who wish to run alongside me. I’m extremely Loyal but far too Logical to put up with nonsense. I am Wild, never able to be fully tamed. I am a Survivor. I can always overcome adversity. I act in accordance to what will maintain my own safety and the safety of those around me.
I am a Protector, Teacher, Lover and Nurturer. I’m all about having fun, with that being said all fun must strive be as Safe, Ethical, Consensual, and Beneficial!
My middle/little side is more a personal coping mechanism that allows me to properly be able to relaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. I’ll stand up for anyone who needs me whenever I can. However, I get tired and worn out with the tasks of day-to-day life. Simply living with chronic health issues and ADHD is exhausting.
What can I say, I’m a freak and i own it. I’m well aware my experience is niche but there most certainly are more people like me out there. I tried fitting to societal molds. I barely scraped through to the other side. Eventually, I tossed that idea out the window completely. Seriously 0/10 do not recommend.
I’m here to help you fill in some blanks on your journey. My goal is to help make it the most positive experience. I aim to minimize accidents or not very nice situations as much as humanly possible.
I prefer people to ask the more embarrassing questions. I prompt them to explore what they truly want to do or gain concerning Poly or Kink. I want everyone to be able to fulfill their needs and desires. It makes me so happy to watch people grow. I am super excited when they become comfortable within a community that cares and supports them!
As we progress through topics, you’ll see different people pop up in quotes. I have asked them for their input so that I’m always giving you the best information. This ensures you get the most valuable tips and hacks I can find for you! If ever you need a little extra, drop me a message. I’ll be more than happy to have a chat.
What People Say About me.
“Nik is a sultry firecracker who will do his best to make all your fantasies come true.”
Coyote.
“It’s brilliant and you are always fun, infectious laughter and up for an adventure, time well spent when it’s in your company.”
BB
“Nik is a clear communicator and has great compassion for others. He’s loyal and supportive – I’m glad to have his help and counsel. He’s a great party host too!”
Prosey
FoxHacks 